When was the last time you said "no" to put your wellbeing first?

Gizem Nur Keskin
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Aleksej Vukomanovic
Since 2 weeks ago, I started saying no or pushing meetings to another day based on availability instead of trying to overdo and keep burning out too often
Gizem Nur Keskin
@aleksejvu That's amazing, Aleksej!
I said no to networking event last week as I felt that my social battery couldn't handle it. Best decision ever šŸ™‚ Instead, I went for a walk on a beach and recharged myself.
Gizem Nur Keskin
@sandradjajic Sounds lovely, Sandra!
Shaur ul Asar
Wellbeing should always be a priority, but for me it is very challenging to say "no" to prioritize myself.
Gizem Nur Keskin
@shaur_ul_asar It is the same for me!
John Carmichael
Is that not the definition of bootstrapping a startup ;) So many social events, sporting events... you name it... but I don't think I would have been able to say no if I didn't love what we were building... Liffery dot com. We're launching on here tomorrow, find us on the coming soon and hit that big old "notify me" button :D
John Carmichael
@gizemnurkeskin thank you so much! If you would like to listen to our story and see the faces behind the product you can find all that at https://www.liffery.com/liffery/...
Gizem Nur Keskin
@john_carmichael Congrats on your launch, John :)
Charlotte Chiang
I stopped drinking caffeinated beverages about 2 months ago - originally for health-related reasons, but the mental benefits were out of this world. After the first 10 days of withdrawal, I started to feel naturally creative, present, and energetic again. Plus, I'm sleeping as well as I did when I was a teenager šŸ˜‚ Never going back to the coffee habit!
Gizem Nur Keskin
@charmandro oh wow! That is amazing, Charlotte! I am so happy for you!
Janine N
Luckily I've gotten pretty good at this, so I say no pretty frequently :) Last one I can remember was last week, when we were at a meetup, but it was in a loud bar and nobody could really talk to each other without shouting. The vibe just wasn't super great. I said no to the second round of drinks and opted to go home early, get a good night sleep and wake up without a hangover... Win win!
Gizem Nur Keskin
@janine_nitz Oh wow! That's amazing, Janine!
I said no to my daily bag of chips, but my wellbeing quickly turned into a bag of guilt. Can I get a side of encouragement with that?šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚
Gizem Nur Keskin
@realvladgolub šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚ Well done, Vlad! I know how hard it is to say no to a bag of chips šŸ˜‚
Michelle Sanchez
Just last week, I said "no" to attending a social event because I needed time to rest and recharge. Taking care of my wellbeing is a priority, and sometimes that means declining invitations to prioritize self-care.
Yannell Selman
@michelle__s11 Social events are part of how I recharge! šŸ˜… They help me disconnect from work. Iā€™m curious if you find yourself thinking about work during self care time? Or are you able to unplug?
Carl Brook
I said NO to a coffee one time, this has to count right ? šŸ˜‚šŸ˜
Carl Brook
@gizemnurkeskin YESSSSS! šŸ˜šŸ˜‚
Gizem Nur Keskin
@carl_brook It definitely counts šŸ˜…
Oh, this one was made for me, it was today! I had a really time consuming and mental health consuming client šŸ˜‚, what he wanted me to make was way off his goals and what actually works. He didnā€™t have a clear buyer persona, he didnā€™t want to have a clear understanding on how things were going, and worst of all he had an ego. He said he was a designer but our designs and content strategy were 1. Better looking 2. With purpose, and he didnā€™t approved anything that he didnā€™t basically strangled into being his way, which was wayyyyy off his business graphic line. I was investing a lot of time and effort and getting basically nothing in return, when I realized that, I had to let him go .
Gizem Nur Keskin
@franklin_miguel I am glad you made this decision, Franklin :)